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If you’re an older guy, you may be wondering if attracting women ten, twenty, maybe even thirty years younger than you is possible. Well, the answer is yes, but only if you know how to use your age to your advantage. In this article, I am going to share 7 essentials every older guy needs to know to meet, attract, and date beautiful younger women. These 7 “Older Guy†Qualities Get Younger Women CHASING. As many of you probably know, I’ve been a dating coach for a long time, a little over twelve years, to be exact. I’ve had the privilege of coaching and working with thousands of men ranging in age from 18 to 87. Over the years, some of my favorite success stories were guys in their 40s, 50s, 60s, or older who finally realized their potential, attracting and dating women they thought were out of their league. Whenever a guy like this smashes through his limiting beliefs about women or dating or himself, they all say the same thing, “Wow, it’s easier now than it was when I was in my 20’s.†The reason for this is twofold: One, being attractive to women is a learnable skill. And two, these guys leverage their age as an asset rather than a liability. As men age, we break into two distinct categories: those who use our age as an advantage and guys who use their age as an excuse. If you want to reap the attractive benefits of your age, you need to embrace the status, wisdom, and experience that come with age. To put it in simpler terms, you need to adopt the mindset of an attractive older guy, a mindset I’ve distilled down to 7 core tents that will effectively turn Father Time into your wingman. So, let’s get started. 1. Set the Standard. In most interactions, one person sets the standard and the other tries to live up to that standard. One person is the seller and the other is the buyer. As an older guy, you always want to put yourself in the position of the buyer, the one setting the standard. This is important because it differentiates you from almost every other guy she might be talking to and lets you to set the frame of the interaction. Letting a woman set the frame is a common mistake guys make—especially when a woman is particularly attractive. Whatever she thinks is funny becomes the humor that defines the interaction, whatever she finds interesting becomes the topic of conversation. If she’s a foodie, he invites her to expensive restaurants he has no interest in but hopes she’ll like. Younger guys closer to her age might be able to get away with a mistake like this, but, as an older guy, you can’t go down this road. Instead, you need to unapologetically set the standard, which she should want to live up to. It may seem counter-intuitive, but an attractive woman will find a guy who’s a challenge so much more attractive than a guy who’s just trying to be whatever he thinks she’ll like. And, since you’re the one with the experience, wisdom, and quiet confidence that a man only develops over time—with age—you have a unique form of value. It’s a somewhat rare form of value since it’s only available to older guys, and most older guys squander it by letting a woman set that standard simply because she’s hot. Be smarter than that. 2. Always Be Certain. Next up, let’s talk about certainty. This is another non-negotiable. Whenever a younger woman starts feeling attracted to an older man, her knee-jerk response will be to start testing him. Keep in mind, the reason a woman tests a man is because she’s looking for chinks in his armor. She’s essentially trying to figure out, Is this guy really as strong as he seems? If you’re familiar with men’s dating advice, you probably already know what a test is. But for those who don’t, a test is when a woman throws a wrench into the interaction. Sometimes, it’s obvious, like a nasty remark or insult, but often, it’s something subtle or passive-aggressive. For example, a woman who suddenly goes cold on text might be testing you. A guy who lacks certainty overreacts to a woman’s tests. Rather than remaining calm and trusting in himself, he gets overly emotional and starts second-guessing himself. Once a woman sees that you’re becoming sad, mad, upset, or even just a bit insecure, you fail the test, and she starts seeing you as less attractive. As an older guy, you need to be ready for this. Anytime an older guy interacts with a younger woman, she tests him a lot. So much of what younger women find attractive about old men is their unassailable emotional strength. No matter what she says or does, you should always remain calm and in control of yourself. When you respond to her tests with unwavering certainty, her attraction to you intensifies like pouring gasoline on an open flame. 3. Dress the Part. Let’s shift gears a bit and talk about dressing the part. As an older guy, you need to look congruent to the high-value guy you’re presenting yourself as. Two mistakes I see older guys make when it comes to their wardrobe are either dressing the same way they did in high school or their 20s or—even worse—thinking adopting a younger style makes them appear youthful or cool. It doesn’t. Older guys who make fashion mistakes like this almost always come off out-of-touch and often downright embarrassing. Instead, learn how to present yourself in an attractive and age-appropriate way. As an older guy, you want to convey attractive older guy qualities like ambition, dignity, worldliness, and success. Better yet, you want a woman to see that you’re a boss, an autonomous man who easily walks through the world. Now, there are several ways you can sub-communicate that with your clothing, but I want to focus on a simple example I can explain in 3 simple steps. It’s a style I call “sovereign chic,†which takes a piece of formal menswear and dresses it down stylishly. So, step one. Begin with a formal piece of menswear. A sharp, well-made suit tends to work best, but you can get creative with vests, blazers, and so on. Just make sure whatever you choose signals ambition. It should be something you’d expect to see in the C suite, not on a college campus. Step two. Take your selection to the best tailor in your vicinity and have him mercilessly hem it to fit you like a second set of skin. When it comes to good tailoring, the devil is in the details. Here’s a list of all the basic suit alterations your tailor should consider. Step three. Now pair your suit or piece of formalwear with something a bit more casual. It can be as simple as a nice V-neck t-shirt or sweater. Henleys also work well. The idea you want to convey is that you’re dressed up but not for work. You’re dressed well because you want to, not because you must. This communicates all the right attractive older guy qualities. An attractive older man ALWAYS has to present himself in a way that’s congruent to high value. 4. Date Her, Don’t Save Her. As an older guy, you may be tempted to do some white knighting and try to solve her problems for her. But listen closely: don’t do it. I hate to say it, but no good deed goes unpunished. If you start inserting yourself into a woman’s life, trying to solve her problems for her, you’re going to screw things up with her and regret you didn’t take my advice. Even if she seems to want or even ask for your help, resist the urge. Remember: you’re the older guy she’s dating, not her dad.
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Yes, but only if they use their age to their advantage. There are 7 qualities an older man MUST display... Dating Tips for Older Men.
ENTER TO THE SITE
If you’re an older guy, you may be wondering if attracting women ten, twenty, maybe even thirty years younger than you is possible. Well, the answer is yes, but only if you know how to use your age to your advantage. In this article, I am going to share 7 essentials every older guy needs to know to meet, attract, and date beautiful younger women. These 7 “Older Guy†Qualities Get Younger Women CHASING. As many of you probably know, I’ve been a dating coach for a long time, a little over twelve years, to be exact. I’ve had the privilege of coaching and working with thousands of men ranging in age from 18 to 87. Over the years, some of my favorite success stories were guys in their 40s, 50s, 60s, or older who finally realized their potential, attracting and dating women they thought were out of their league. Whenever a guy like this smashes through his limiting beliefs about women or dating or himself, they all say the same thing, “Wow, it’s easier now than it was when I was in my 20’s.†The reason for this is twofold: One, being attractive to women is a learnable skill. And two, these guys leverage their age as an asset rather than a liability. As men age, we break into two distinct categories: those who use our age as an advantage and guys who use their age as an excuse. If you want to reap the attractive benefits of your age, you need to embrace the status, wisdom, and experience that come with age. To put it in simpler terms, you need to adopt the mindset of an attractive older guy, a mindset I’ve distilled down to 7 core tents that will effectively turn Father Time into your wingman. So, let’s get started. 1. Set the Standard. In most interactions, one person sets the standard and the other tries to live up to that standard. One person is the seller and the other is the buyer. As an older guy, you always want to put yourself in the position of the buyer, the one setting the standard. This is important because it differentiates you from almost every other guy she might be talking to and lets you to set the frame of the interaction. Letting a woman set the frame is a common mistake guys make—especially when a woman is particularly attractive. Whatever she thinks is funny becomes the humor that defines the interaction, whatever she finds interesting becomes the topic of conversation. If she’s a foodie, he invites her to expensive restaurants he has no interest in but hopes she’ll like. Younger guys closer to her age might be able to get away with a mistake like this, but, as an older guy, you can’t go down this road. Instead, you need to unapologetically set the standard, which she should want to live up to. It may seem counter-intuitive, but an attractive woman will find a guy who’s a challenge so much more attractive than a guy who’s just trying to be whatever he thinks she’ll like. And, since you’re the one with the experience, wisdom, and quiet confidence that a man only develops over time—with age—you have a unique form of value. It’s a somewhat rare form of value since it’s only available to older guys, and most older guys squander it by letting a woman set that standard simply because she’s hot. Be smarter than that. 2. Always Be Certain. Next up, let’s talk about certainty. This is another non-negotiable. Whenever a younger woman starts feeling attracted to an older man, her knee-jerk response will be to start testing him. Keep in mind, the reason a woman tests a man is because she’s looking for chinks in his armor. She’s essentially trying to figure out, Is this guy really as strong as he seems? If you’re familiar with men’s dating advice, you probably already know what a test is. But for those who don’t, a test is when a woman throws a wrench into the interaction. Sometimes, it’s obvious, like a nasty remark or insult, but often, it’s something subtle or passive-aggressive. For example, a woman who suddenly goes cold on text might be testing you. A guy who lacks certainty overreacts to a woman’s tests. Rather than remaining calm and trusting in himself, he gets overly emotional and starts second-guessing himself. Once a woman sees that you’re becoming sad, mad, upset, or even just a bit insecure, you fail the test, and she starts seeing you as less attractive. As an older guy, you need to be ready for this. Anytime an older guy interacts with a younger woman, she tests him a lot. So much of what younger women find attractive about old men is their unassailable emotional strength. No matter what she says or does, you should always remain calm and in control of yourself. When you respond to her tests with unwavering certainty, her attraction to you intensifies like pouring gasoline on an open flame. 3. Dress the Part. Let’s shift gears a bit and talk about dressing the part. As an older guy, you need to look congruent to the high-value guy you’re presenting yourself as. Two mistakes I see older guys make when it comes to their wardrobe are either dressing the same way they did in high school or their 20s or—even worse—thinking adopting a younger style makes them appear youthful or cool. It doesn’t. Older guys who make fashion mistakes like this almost always come off out-of-touch and often downright embarrassing. Instead, learn how to present yourself in an attractive and age-appropriate way. As an older guy, you want to convey attractive older guy qualities like ambition, dignity, worldliness, and success. Better yet, you want a woman to see that you’re a boss, an autonomous man who easily walks through the world. Now, there are several ways you can sub-communicate that with your clothing, but I want to focus on a simple example I can explain in 3 simple steps. It’s a style I call “sovereign chic,†which takes a piece of formal menswear and dresses it down stylishly. So, step one. Begin with a formal piece of menswear. A sharp, well-made suit tends to work best, but you can get creative with vests, blazers, and so on. Just make sure whatever you choose signals ambition. It should be something you’d expect to see in the C suite, not on a college campus. Step two. Take your selection to the best tailor in your vicinity and have him mercilessly hem it to fit you like a second set of skin. When it comes to good tailoring, the devil is in the details. Here’s a list of all the basic suit alterations your tailor should consider. Step three. Now pair your suit or piece of formalwear with something a bit more casual. It can be as simple as a nice V-neck t-shirt or sweater. Henleys also work well. The idea you want to convey is that you’re dressed up but not for work. You’re dressed well because you want to, not because you must. This communicates all the right attractive older guy qualities. An attractive older man ALWAYS has to present himself in a way that’s congruent to high value. 4. Date Her, Don’t Save Her. As an older guy, you may be tempted to do some white knighting and try to solve her problems for her. But listen closely: don’t do it. I hate to say it, but no good deed goes unpunished. If you start inserting yourself into a woman’s life, trying to solve her problems for her, you’re going to screw things up with her and regret you didn’t take my advice. Even if she seems to want or even ask for your help, resist the urge. Remember: you’re the older guy she’s dating, not her dad.
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