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If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Twitter . What to look for in a guy: 36 good qualities in a man. Finding the perfect guy can be a tall order. After all, tall, dark and handsome seems to be what women claim to want. But when it comes down to living with Mr. Tall, Dark and Handsome, some women find that they prefer a man to have certain qualities overlooks. Pining after men who can make them laugh, who cares about their family and friends, and who supports them through the ups and downs in life is actually more important to women than looks. It’s why so many women find themselves falling for guys that wouldn’t normally be on their radar: these guys have got it going on in terms of boyfriend qualities and even husband qualities that women secretly look for, and often are disappointed about, in Mr. Tall, Dark, and Handsome. Here are 36 great qualities to look for in a man: 1) He’s got a head on his shoulders. The perfect guy is smart. There are no two ways about it. Guys who have a head on their shoulders, as the saying goes, are quick thinkers and problem solvers. They see the big picture and don’t get caught up in the details that can slow them down. In a relationship, this quality can go a long way because he can figure things out and is not afraid to fall down a few times on his way to finding the right answers. Also, a study has found that the smarter the man is, the less likely he is to be unfaithful. 2) He has the same values as you. An important part of any relationship is the compatibility of values. If your guy isn’t aligned with what you want in life, no matter how good-looking he may be, the relationship won’t last long. Men and women have different opinions about a lot of things, but if you can find someone who thinks the same way you do about the big things: life, marriage, money, travel, and charity. When you meet someone who has the same outlook and wants to focus on the same things, your relationship is much easier. ADVERTISEMENT. What are your values in life? When you know your values, you are in a better position to develop meaningful goals and move forward in life. Download the free values checklist by the highly acclaimed career coach Jeanette Brown to instantly learn what your values really are. 3) He’s emotionally mature. Emotional maturity is crucial for long-term relationships. Working with an emotionally mature adult means you get respect and understanding instead of jabs and snipes. You want someone who can talk to you and tell you when something’s bugging him about the relationship, without him resorting to verbal or physical attacks. When someone’s emotionally mature, he has the ability to think about you and how his actions may be affecting you instead of automatically going on the defense. People who don’t have a well-rounded sense of self and relationships tend to put themselves first before anything else. This can cause the relationship to break down before it’s even had the chance to truly flourish. If you’re looking for a partner who can listen to you and work through issues with you amicably, find someone who’s emotionally mature. 4) He has integrity. When it comes to finding a good guy, sometimes it’s less about his likes and dislikes and more about what he truly believes in. Everyone has their own moral code — a personal code of ethics they follow in their day-to-day interactions. Being with a guy who follows his own moral standards and upholds them is a sign that this person has a basic respect for things. He doesn’t have to be a firefighter or an activist to have a great sense of integrity. Just being able to stand up for what he believes in and draw the line when necessary is admirable. In a world where people seem to go with anything and that morals are very ambiguous, integrity stands out because it shows that you’re not just apathetic and mindless about what’s going on around you. When you find someone who has integrity, you find someone who has the capacity to think outside of himself and extend that care to others. 5) He can break the tension with a joke. The perfect guy can break the tension with a well-placed joke. He might not be overly funny, but he can make you laugh when you need it most. A sense of humor is high on a woman’s wish list for her perfect guy. And it’s no wonder: guys who can make you laugh are worth keeping around. In fact, a study has found that humor ability reveals intelligence and predicts “mating successâ€. Life is hard and if someone can break the ice, release the tension, and make you see things from a different perspective, he’s a keeper. 6) He cares about your friends and family. Guys aren’t known for their empathy or communication skills. If your guy is tuned into your friends and family and asks about them, cares about them, and treats them with the same respect he treats you, that’s a good thing. When you are dating a guy who can get along with your dad or your best friend, that says a lot about him. It’s hard to bring new people into our lives, but if he fits right in, that’s good news for you. 7) He gets that your career is important to you. Some men are intimidated by an independent woman, but not your guy. If he gets you and what you are all about, he’ll get that your job is important to you. Whether you work for someone else or run your own company, he gets that you don’t just need to work, you want to work. It’s an important part of who you are. The perfect guy will be able to give you all the space you need to make things happen in your life. 8) He respects you and what you bring to the table. Sometimes, it’s hard to find someone who sees the best in you. If you’ve had a string of failed relationships, you may be feeling vulnerable to allow this guy into your life to see what you are all about. But don’t worry, he already knows. He can see what makes you special from a mile away and he wants you to celebrate how awesome you are.
I am looking for a good man
I am looking for a man
I am a man looking for a woman
I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. I have a graduate degree in Psychology and I’ve spent the last 15 years reading and studying all I can about human psychology and practical ways to hack our mindsets. Check out my latest book on the Hidden Secrets of Buddhism and How it Saved My Life .
ENTER TO THE SITE
If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Twitter . What to look for in a guy: 36 good qualities in a man. Finding the perfect guy can be a tall order. After all, tall, dark and handsome seems to be what women claim to want. But when it comes down to living with Mr. Tall, Dark and Handsome, some women find that they prefer a man to have certain qualities overlooks. Pining after men who can make them laugh, who cares about their family and friends, and who supports them through the ups and downs in life is actually more important to women than looks. It’s why so many women find themselves falling for guys that wouldn’t normally be on their radar: these guys have got it going on in terms of boyfriend qualities and even husband qualities that women secretly look for, and often are disappointed about, in Mr. Tall, Dark, and Handsome. Here are 36 great qualities to look for in a man: 1) He’s got a head on his shoulders. The perfect guy is smart. There are no two ways about it. Guys who have a head on their shoulders, as the saying goes, are quick thinkers and problem solvers. They see the big picture and don’t get caught up in the details that can slow them down. In a relationship, this quality can go a long way because he can figure things out and is not afraid to fall down a few times on his way to finding the right answers. Also, a study has found that the smarter the man is, the less likely he is to be unfaithful. 2) He has the same values as you. An important part of any relationship is the compatibility of values. If your guy isn’t aligned with what you want in life, no matter how good-looking he may be, the relationship won’t last long. Men and women have different opinions about a lot of things, but if you can find someone who thinks the same way you do about the big things: life, marriage, money, travel, and charity. When you meet someone who has the same outlook and wants to focus on the same things, your relationship is much easier. ADVERTISEMENT. What are your values in life? When you know your values, you are in a better position to develop meaningful goals and move forward in life. Download the free values checklist by the highly acclaimed career coach Jeanette Brown to instantly learn what your values really are. 3) He’s emotionally mature. Emotional maturity is crucial for long-term relationships. Working with an emotionally mature adult means you get respect and understanding instead of jabs and snipes. You want someone who can talk to you and tell you when something’s bugging him about the relationship, without him resorting to verbal or physical attacks. When someone’s emotionally mature, he has the ability to think about you and how his actions may be affecting you instead of automatically going on the defense. People who don’t have a well-rounded sense of self and relationships tend to put themselves first before anything else. This can cause the relationship to break down before it’s even had the chance to truly flourish. If you’re looking for a partner who can listen to you and work through issues with you amicably, find someone who’s emotionally mature. 4) He has integrity. When it comes to finding a good guy, sometimes it’s less about his likes and dislikes and more about what he truly believes in. Everyone has their own moral code — a personal code of ethics they follow in their day-to-day interactions. Being with a guy who follows his own moral standards and upholds them is a sign that this person has a basic respect for things. He doesn’t have to be a firefighter or an activist to have a great sense of integrity. Just being able to stand up for what he believes in and draw the line when necessary is admirable. In a world where people seem to go with anything and that morals are very ambiguous, integrity stands out because it shows that you’re not just apathetic and mindless about what’s going on around you. When you find someone who has integrity, you find someone who has the capacity to think outside of himself and extend that care to others. 5) He can break the tension with a joke. The perfect guy can break the tension with a well-placed joke. He might not be overly funny, but he can make you laugh when you need it most. A sense of humor is high on a woman’s wish list for her perfect guy. And it’s no wonder: guys who can make you laugh are worth keeping around. In fact, a study has found that humor ability reveals intelligence and predicts “mating successâ€. Life is hard and if someone can break the ice, release the tension, and make you see things from a different perspective, he’s a keeper. 6) He cares about your friends and family. Guys aren’t known for their empathy or communication skills. If your guy is tuned into your friends and family and asks about them, cares about them, and treats them with the same respect he treats you, that’s a good thing. When you are dating a guy who can get along with your dad or your best friend, that says a lot about him. It’s hard to bring new people into our lives, but if he fits right in, that’s good news for you. 7) He gets that your career is important to you. Some men are intimidated by an independent woman, but not your guy. If he gets you and what you are all about, he’ll get that your job is important to you. Whether you work for someone else or run your own company, he gets that you don’t just need to work, you want to work. It’s an important part of who you are. The perfect guy will be able to give you all the space you need to make things happen in your life. 8) He respects you and what you bring to the table. Sometimes, it’s hard to find someone who sees the best in you. If you’ve had a string of failed relationships, you may be feeling vulnerable to allow this guy into your life to see what you are all about. But don’t worry, he already knows. He can see what makes you special from a mile away and he wants you to celebrate how awesome you are.
I am looking for a good man
I am looking for a man
I am a man looking for a woman