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5 Ways to Live with Joy as a Single Older Woman. Iā€™ve been single for the last 20+ years. I got married in 1964, when I was 20 years old.
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I was married for 18 years (really, 15 years because that is when we separated). And then, after that, I had a relationship with a significant other for 17 years. Doing the math, I was in a relationship for 32 years and single for 45 years. Remaining Single. It is my intention to stay single. This bold statement is not as drastic as it seems because I know that I will have male friends or boyfriends until I take my last breath. However, it is not my preference to co-habit with a man again (under the same roof) or marry a man no matter how much I love him. I donā€™t want to engage in sharing financial planning with a man. Iā€™ve reached the age where I want freedom to choose, to decide what I need. Iā€™ve set my life up so that I can meet my needs and have fun doing it. Years ago, people used to raise eyebrows at women who chose to live alone. Maybe some people still do. The term old maid comes to mind or even, ā€œsheā€™s just a little crazy.ā€ A man may be called ā€œthe proverbial bachelorā€ but without the female stigma. You might think it is absurd for me to plunge head on in the single direction and want to live for the rest of my life in singular bliss. Of course, I might be in assisted living someday, so that would negate my concerted desire to live alone. But thatā€™s communal living for the most part, and thatā€™s a horse of a different color. In this moment of my singular journey, Iā€™ve learned to find hope and strength, determination and happiness within myself, to solve my problems without constantly bothering others, and to design a fulfilling life. Iā€™ve learned to love being a woman in my own shoes, in my own company. Iā€™ve learned to love myself without reservation. Every morning when I take my half mile swim in Barton Springs and feel the cold water washing over my body, I give gratitude for the way my life keeps giving me inspiration, fulfilment and joy. When I practice Yoga, the stillness of my life brings me spiritual sustenance. If you had known me decades ago, you would have seen a woman manically in search of a relationship, in search of togetherness, in search of a soul mate. I was lucky that I found a man who remarkably matched my sensibilities in all the ways I thought important ā€“ body, mind, and spirit. When my partner died, I knew he would have wanted me to keep moving forward, to experience everything I desired, to stay close to my sons and grandchildren, to study, to be curious, to read and most important of all, to write. My partner never saw my aspirations come to fruition, but it is enough for me to believe that his energy and inspiration infuses my choices and cheers my decisions on to this day. I Am My Own Soul Mate. When I lived in Los Angeles, there was an online magazine called Singularity . The idea was to offer ideas, suggestions and activities to encourage singles to live a happy and fulfilling life.
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Article about single women looking for fun:
5 Ways to Live with Joy as a Single Older Woman. Iā€™ve been single for the last 20+ years. I got married in 1964, when I was 20 years old.
GO TO SITE
I was married for 18 years (really, 15 years because that is when we separated). And then, after that, I had a relationship with a significant other for 17 years. Doing the math, I was in a relationship for 32 years and single for 45 years. Remaining Single. It is my intention to stay single. This bold statement is not as drastic as it seems because I know that I will have male friends or boyfriends until I take my last breath. However, it is not my preference to co-habit with a man again (under the same roof) or marry a man no matter how much I love him. I donā€™t want to engage in sharing financial planning with a man. Iā€™ve reached the age where I want freedom to choose, to decide what I need. Iā€™ve set my life up so that I can meet my needs and have fun doing it. Years ago, people used to raise eyebrows at women who chose to live alone. Maybe some people still do. The term old maid comes to mind or even, ā€œsheā€™s just a little crazy.ā€ A man may be called ā€œthe proverbial bachelorā€ but without the female stigma. You might think it is absurd for me to plunge head on in the single direction and want to live for the rest of my life in singular bliss. Of course, I might be in assisted living someday, so that would negate my concerted desire to live alone. But thatā€™s communal living for the most part, and thatā€™s a horse of a different color. In this moment of my singular journey, Iā€™ve learned to find hope and strength, determination and happiness within myself, to solve my problems without constantly bothering others, and to design a fulfilling life. Iā€™ve learned to love being a woman in my own shoes, in my own company. Iā€™ve learned to love myself without reservation. Every morning when I take my half mile swim in Barton Springs and feel the cold water washing over my body, I give gratitude for the way my life keeps giving me inspiration, fulfilment and joy. When I practice Yoga, the stillness of my life brings me spiritual sustenance. If you had known me decades ago, you would have seen a woman manically in search of a relationship, in search of togetherness, in search of a soul mate. I was lucky that I found a man who remarkably matched my sensibilities in all the ways I thought important ā€“ body, mind, and spirit. When my partner died, I knew he would have wanted me to keep moving forward, to experience everything I desired, to stay close to my sons and grandchildren, to study, to be curious, to read and most important of all, to write. My partner never saw my aspirations come to fruition, but it is enough for me to believe that his energy and inspiration infuses my choices and cheers my decisions on to this day. I Am My Own Soul Mate. When I lived in Los Angeles, there was an online magazine called Singularity . The idea was to offer ideas, suggestions and activities to encourage singles to live a happy and fulfilling life.
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