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She graduated with a bachelor of Law and bachelor of Arts majoring in sociology and psychology. She has been a dating and relationship coach for women in the past 15 years and together with her husband D. Shen at Commitment Triggers blog , they have positively influenced the lives of over 20 million women through their articles and videos as well as 10’,s of thousands through paid programs through the Shen Wade Media platform.
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Connect deeper with her work through the social media links below. Women Who Date Married Men: 11 Hush-Hush Reasons They Do It. Why do women date married men? What’s the psychology of women who date married men? There are some legitimate but concealed reasons why women like married men. Sometimes, even though a woman started off as a morally upstanding person, she finds herself joining the club of women who sleep with married men. Yes it’s taboo, yes sometimes it’s selfish, but it exists. And that’s why we should try to understand this phenomenon. When we understand the psychology of women who date married men, we become more aware and able to prepare ourselves for what actually exists around us. Table of Contents. Why Do Women Like Married Men: This Is Why. Secretly many women may admit that there can be a specific allure about a man who is married. No one likes to hear it (least of all the married women of the world), but when you juxtapose a married man and a single man, the perceived value of the married man may come out on top. And this is what this is about in the end: perceived value. But can’t these women just leave married men alone? And can’t married men just leave single women alone? Well, not really. We don’t live in a fair or moral world. We live in a real world, and we can kick and scream all we want about not wanting women to steal our husbands away, but I think the smarter idea would be to just become more aware of why women choose married men (and why some married men keep women on the side) in the first place. So let’s look at the 11 hush-hush reasons why women date married men. #1: Married men are preselected by another woman. …so that takes the guesswork out of it. Whilst a woman’s value is much easier for a man to see (men use visual cues and can ascertain a woman’s value just by looking at her), a man’s value takes time for a woman to ascertain. Also, when a woman ascertains a man’s overall value, the weight of that judgement (percentage wise) doesn’t preferentially fall on external looks like it does for men. The value of a man goes far beyond just his looks, and it can take time as well as careful investigation to conclude how much value a man really has to a woman. This makes married men easy picking fruits. That is to say that another woman has already casted her vote (and devoted her energy and time to him), so that is insurance against bad choices for a mistress. #2: Mate Choice Copying… If you marry a decent man, other women want to copy your choice in husband ( and this is especially true if you’re super hot yourself). If the woman is super gorgeous, other women want to know more about the mystery of why she chose the husband that she chose (because hot women have more options, so the husband they choose must be extra valuable). This sense of mystery is arousing for some women. Not to mention, when you posses value in your life (or when your behaviour and actions seem to be of value)…there will quickly be a line of copy-cats behind you. And perhaps those copy cats will be other women wanting to take a piece of your husband for themselves. Because husbands are for sharing, right? But some women may think so! Want to know what makes a man fall in love and beg you to be his one and only woman? There are 5 feminine secrets that will get men to place you in the ‘one and only’ basket. (The promise of this course is for you to have your chosen man fall in love with you & beg you to be his one & only by embodying these 5 feminine secrets, even if he’s been distant, avoidant, or losing interest…) #3: it’s an easy option for lazy women. Ok so not every woman who dates a married man is lazy. But sometimes women do date married men because they’re too lazy to bother looking for a worthy single man, because single men can take effort, and married men are more experienced with women. Some women who date married men may be too lazy to invest time, emotional energy and effort into a good (but seemingly not good enough) single man. See: a lot of behaviours that are intuitive and instinctive to men, are not acceptable to women. That is to say that a lot of the things men do naturally can be a turn off to women. So boys grow up having to learn the ropes. The ropes of how to become acceptable and worthy of the attention of females. Here’s something to note: Men learn to modulate their behaviour to the benefit of women through being with women and being around women. Although not all married men are high value , in general I believe it to be true that married men have already been ‘broken in’, so to speak. Men who are married have more experience with what women will and will not accept. These men may be less awkward and therefore less ‘work’ for a woman. So to an extent it is true that choosing a single man could mean more energy invested into “moulding†this man into something “acceptableâ€. Whereas lots of married men are already acceptable and know all the right things to say and do. This is convenient for certain women. Do our feminine energy quiz: how feminine am i really? #4: He Came On Strong And Seduced Her. However true it may be that some ladies try to avoid married men, sometimes a married man in their proximity (in their workplace, in the friendship group etc), pursues them relentlessly. Some married men have a lot of game. They know what works with women (and they get good at attracting women for sex). This does not in any way take away the responsibility of the woman to say ‘no’ to him. But we know we don’t live in an ideal world, right? In the ideal world, a woman in this position would have the integrity to say ‘no’. But as I’ve said before, people usually do what’s best for themselves. So we can’t trust all people to follow social etiquette. The reality is that a lot of women find it hard to detach from the attention they get from a married man. They are needy of the attention and the sex, so they fall into the trap of the man’s game. When you’re not independent of men giving you attention, when you need it badly, you become an easy target. See how easy it can be for a woman who is vulnerable to become one of the women who sleep with married men? And yes, some married men will stay married and still have a lot of ‘game’ to pick up women on the side. #5: She Doesn’t Want To Be Tied Down. …Or she wants to be able to date and sleep with other men. Since a married man is already taken, a woman has less responsibility to him.
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She graduated with a bachelor of Law and bachelor of Arts majoring in sociology and psychology. She has been a dating and relationship coach for women in the past 15 years and together with her husband D. Shen at Commitment Triggers blog , they have positively influenced the lives of over 20 million women through their articles and videos as well as 10’,s of thousands through paid programs through the Shen Wade Media platform.
ENTER TO THE SITE
Connect deeper with her work through the social media links below. Women Who Date Married Men: 11 Hush-Hush Reasons They Do It. Why do women date married men? What’s the psychology of women who date married men? There are some legitimate but concealed reasons why women like married men. Sometimes, even though a woman started off as a morally upstanding person, she finds herself joining the club of women who sleep with married men. Yes it’s taboo, yes sometimes it’s selfish, but it exists. And that’s why we should try to understand this phenomenon. When we understand the psychology of women who date married men, we become more aware and able to prepare ourselves for what actually exists around us. Table of Contents. Why Do Women Like Married Men: This Is Why. Secretly many women may admit that there can be a specific allure about a man who is married. No one likes to hear it (least of all the married women of the world), but when you juxtapose a married man and a single man, the perceived value of the married man may come out on top. And this is what this is about in the end: perceived value. But can’t these women just leave married men alone? And can’t married men just leave single women alone? Well, not really. We don’t live in a fair or moral world. We live in a real world, and we can kick and scream all we want about not wanting women to steal our husbands away, but I think the smarter idea would be to just become more aware of why women choose married men (and why some married men keep women on the side) in the first place. So let’s look at the 11 hush-hush reasons why women date married men. #1: Married men are preselected by another woman. …so that takes the guesswork out of it. Whilst a woman’s value is much easier for a man to see (men use visual cues and can ascertain a woman’s value just by looking at her), a man’s value takes time for a woman to ascertain. Also, when a woman ascertains a man’s overall value, the weight of that judgement (percentage wise) doesn’t preferentially fall on external looks like it does for men. The value of a man goes far beyond just his looks, and it can take time as well as careful investigation to conclude how much value a man really has to a woman. This makes married men easy picking fruits. That is to say that another woman has already casted her vote (and devoted her energy and time to him), so that is insurance against bad choices for a mistress. #2: Mate Choice Copying… If you marry a decent man, other women want to copy your choice in husband ( and this is especially true if you’re super hot yourself). If the woman is super gorgeous, other women want to know more about the mystery of why she chose the husband that she chose (because hot women have more options, so the husband they choose must be extra valuable). This sense of mystery is arousing for some women. Not to mention, when you posses value in your life (or when your behaviour and actions seem to be of value)…there will quickly be a line of copy-cats behind you. And perhaps those copy cats will be other women wanting to take a piece of your husband for themselves. Because husbands are for sharing, right? But some women may think so! Want to know what makes a man fall in love and beg you to be his one and only woman? There are 5 feminine secrets that will get men to place you in the ‘one and only’ basket. (The promise of this course is for you to have your chosen man fall in love with you & beg you to be his one & only by embodying these 5 feminine secrets, even if he’s been distant, avoidant, or losing interest…) #3: it’s an easy option for lazy women. Ok so not every woman who dates a married man is lazy. But sometimes women do date married men because they’re too lazy to bother looking for a worthy single man, because single men can take effort, and married men are more experienced with women. Some women who date married men may be too lazy to invest time, emotional energy and effort into a good (but seemingly not good enough) single man. See: a lot of behaviours that are intuitive and instinctive to men, are not acceptable to women. That is to say that a lot of the things men do naturally can be a turn off to women. So boys grow up having to learn the ropes. The ropes of how to become acceptable and worthy of the attention of females. Here’s something to note: Men learn to modulate their behaviour to the benefit of women through being with women and being around women. Although not all married men are high value , in general I believe it to be true that married men have already been ‘broken in’, so to speak. Men who are married have more experience with what women will and will not accept. These men may be less awkward and therefore less ‘work’ for a woman. So to an extent it is true that choosing a single man could mean more energy invested into “moulding†this man into something “acceptableâ€. Whereas lots of married men are already acceptable and know all the right things to say and do. This is convenient for certain women. Do our feminine energy quiz: how feminine am i really? #4: He Came On Strong And Seduced Her. However true it may be that some ladies try to avoid married men, sometimes a married man in their proximity (in their workplace, in the friendship group etc), pursues them relentlessly. Some married men have a lot of game. They know what works with women (and they get good at attracting women for sex). This does not in any way take away the responsibility of the woman to say ‘no’ to him. But we know we don’t live in an ideal world, right? In the ideal world, a woman in this position would have the integrity to say ‘no’. But as I’ve said before, people usually do what’s best for themselves. So we can’t trust all people to follow social etiquette. The reality is that a lot of women find it hard to detach from the attention they get from a married man. They are needy of the attention and the sex, so they fall into the trap of the man’s game. When you’re not independent of men giving you attention, when you need it badly, you become an easy target. See how easy it can be for a woman who is vulnerable to become one of the women who sleep with married men? And yes, some married men will stay married and still have a lot of ‘game’ to pick up women on the side. #5: She Doesn’t Want To Be Tied Down. …Or she wants to be able to date and sleep with other men. Since a married man is already taken, a woman has less responsibility to him.
Want to get married dating site
Married but want to date
Married wanting to date